Wedding Problems

Contributing Writer
Pastor Shawn Hannon
Hope Lutheran Church, Arcade, NY

There is a gospel reading that sounds all too familiar. It was the story of a king hosting a wedding banquet for his son. What was familiar about the story was not the party, the food, or the celebration, but rather the reminder that at weddings anything can go wrong. At my own wedding it was the readers who missed the ceremony altogether because they were killing time at Walmart. Awkward.

I think the king would have invited my wedding problems. His, you see, were far worse. After making all of the preparations, slaughtering the fatted calves, preparing the hall, and inviting the guests, this king settled in for the wedding celebration only to find that none of his guests were coming. Not losing heart, this king decided to invite them again. This time, however, not only do they not attend—some going to their farms and others to their businesses—but they seize his servants carrying the invitations themselves. But this king would not stop. Next he sent more invitations out, but this time not to those formerly invited, but to others right off the street. Before he knew it the hall was full. No more worries, right? Yeah right! At last the king enters the hall only to find that at least one of the guests wasn’t dressed for the wedding. I know plenty of brides that would have had mental breakdowns if they encountered anything close to that, and who could blame them. Nothing went right.

Jesus says the kingdom of heaven may be compared to that king throwing a wedding banquet for his son. So what’s Jesus trying to say? That heaven is like a wedding where nothing goes right? Let’s face it, those are fun to watch on Youtube, but not so fun to live. Of course Jesus isn’t saying heaven is like that. Jesus is saying that God is like that king—that God will stop at nothing to gather us at the celebration that has no end.

God is throwing a party. The book of Isaiah describes that party as “a feast of rich foods and well-aged wines” where death is swallowed up and God wipes away our every tear (Isaiah 25:6-8). It’s an awesome picture of life and salvation, and the best part is not that God is merely throwing that party for us. The best part is that God may be compared to a king who will stop at nothing to fill the hall.

The king in Jesus’ parable should have stopped. But this king, this persistent king, just kept inviting and seeking until the hall was full. And so it is with God. By our standards, God should have given up on us long ago. Instead, we have a God who keeps coming to us, who keeps extending his hand, who seeks us out from every shroud that attempts to cover us. We have a God who will stop at nothing to gather us at his table. Thanks be to God.

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Pastor Shawn is a 2010 graduate of the Lutheran Theological Southern Seminary in Columbia, South Carolina, and he began his call at Hope Lutheran Church, Arcade NY that summer. While he spent four years learning and serving churches in South and North Carolina, as a Jamestown, NY native, Western New York has always been home. He is glad to be here. Pastor Shawn and his wife Carol Hannon met while attending SUNY Geneseo in the mid-2000s. They have enjoyed making their home together in Arcade with their daughters Quinn and Perry.   Pastor Shawn has a background in youth and outdoor ministry. He is a former camper and staff person at Lake Chautauqua Lutheran Center in Bemus Point, NY. He has also served camps in urban settings and oversees in Madagascar. In seminary he was recognized for gifts in Greek and New Testament, and in his senior year was recognized with awards in both Preaching and Biblical Studies. Pastor Shawn continues to emphasize the youth in his ministry, but not simply because they are the future church, but because they are the church of today.  He also enjoys working on service projects, and takes the role of planning meaningful and engaging worship seriously.  He loves helping people find ways to put their passion and energy to work making their community and other people’s worlds a better place. When he is not working at church, Shawn enjoys remodeling and construction projects around his family’s home.  But as busy as he gets, PS always has time for a quick nine (okay, 18) on the golf course. He enjoys playing sports of all kinds and fiddling with his guitar.